Nowadays, it's very difficult to decide at what point of your life you can have a baby. Current mothers have new problems, changes and challenges that they hadn't in previous generations, because of technological leap. Mothers have gone from being present at home all the day and handle all aspects of domestic and school children, to be a figure that has also obligations outside the house and she want to share her responsibilities to her husband. However, I think that being a mother is the best thing that you can live in your life and children give you a happiness that can't be describe with words.
On the one hand, having children is a big responsibility and you have to think hard before taking this important step in your life. A child changes everything, you stop owning your life to give your life to your child. All the money that you earn will be to give to him. You can't go out so much with friends o with your partner because you have to look after your son or daughter. What's more, you will sleep less because babies cry and when they are older and they will go out to a party you can't sleep, too. If you have a smart child, you won't have problems, but if it's the opposite, you will have to struggle to make him a responsibly and studious person.
On the other hand, when you have a child you become a more sensitive person. They give you the motivation to work hard every day and make you a mature and responsibly person. You are happy when you see their first steps, words and usually they make you laugh. You return to the past because you should play with them and be sure that they are well. You have to educate and love them unconditionally because they are the prettiest things that you ever have had.
In conclusion, I strongly believe that although being a mother has a lot of disadvantages, there is nothing better than having a child. The feelings are wonderful and you feel that you always have someone; in this case your child, and he or she is for all your life.

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